The Return

Some people and places we cannot Return to because they have been so damaging. Society doesn't tell you this, we are conditioned and wrongly so at a young age to believe that forgiveness fixes everything. We all know that's bulshit on many levels. I will address that on a later post but since my specialty is healing what I want to address here is; The Return.

The Return in reality is to the self. There is no Return to the damaging environment in any way. And people miss this, Every Time. Let me explain. I have seen this time and time again in my work as a medium and healer. I don't care what anybody says-there is no return. For many that have been gravely damaged by abuse, be it physical,mental, emotional and have or are starting to shut down, there is no Return and Spirit steps in. 

When our nerves are raw and our nervous system is on overload because we have endured so much pain, Spirit steps in. Spirit steps in and gets your attention the only way it can, by shutting down your body and making you feel physically ill in the presence of that individual. You feel completely drained of energy, like your going to die or have a plethora of ailments assail you in the presence of that individual, that is Spirit, working with your Intuition to get you to notice the patterns.

Once removal is accomplished the physical symptoms diminish. Many people are struck by the realization that, that person's energy was toxic to them. A poison, which hingested daily was deadly. Yes, it can and will kill you over time. Recall the science experiment with the plants, the one that is cared for thrives, the one that is mistreated is stunted and dies. We are no different. 

So, there is no Return. This is definite. There is no forgiveness that is going to fix this injury, the forginess is for the self for the damage endured. Likewise, the Return is to the self for deep healing and transformation. 

- Elle